Others may interrupt my trait, but please with normal ethic and more polite. As a human, our personality are not always could be accepted by other people. That’s why sometime we need direct and hard advice, so it stimulates repairing of personality. But I, as an ordinary people want it is spoken explicitly not implicitly.
The first thing why we need other people suggestion is misunderstanding of current view. Maybe people want you give them some advice to solve the complicated personal issue, but we are on the bad condition too even harder, we cannot ignore hearing our mate feeling. Furthermore they need some attention whatever kind of feeling we have, we should put our view same to them.
Although understanding and trying to relate our feeling to other is difficult one, but someday we need this skill to detect quickly what people feeling after we communicate with them. For instance with bad anticipation of speaking we could broke people respect, then after detect it we need to say sorry or just ignore it…hehe
K